Hooking up with live cam girls online for the first time can be an exhilarating experience. At the same time, it can also be quite overwhelming.
Virtual sex has evolved beyond recognition, creating one of the largest and most diverse adult entertainment sectors of all time. Even knowing where to start can be tricky, let alone ensuring you get the best out of every ‘virtual date’ you take part in.
As for the good news – negotiating that initial learning can be surprisingly straightforward, with a few tips and tricks from the pros. If this is your first time getting busy via a webcam, take a deep breath, relax, and heed these solid-gold words of wisdom:
1. Open Your Mind
Or to put it another way, expect the unexpected. Chances are, the kind of stuff that takes place online could come as something of a surprise. This is where a lot of people had to do the kinds of things they’re not comfortable attempting (or even talking about) in the real world. You can do pretty much anything and everything with webcam girls online, with no shame, judgment, or consequences to worry about. With an open mind, you really could be in for the time of your life – every time you log on.
2. Take Advantage of Free Offers
Prior to signing up for any paid services, it’s a good idea to check out what’s on offer for free. This way, you’ll know whether or not the site in question is for you, or if it’s better to take your business elsewhere. Also, take the time to read the site’s T&Cs regarding payments, making sure there are no hidden costs or clauses that could sting you at a later date.
3. Try Out Different Show Types
Depending on the kind of site you sign up with, you may find a variety of different types of shows on offer. These include group shows in front of multiple viewers, private one-on-one ‘dates’ with webcam models, and exclusive private shows with more features and freedom of choice. These show types go by different names, but tend to be the standard types of shows on offer. You may find you like some more than others, so feel free to give them all a go.
4. Make Full Use of the Chat Facility
When you hook up with cam girls online, you can ask them literally about anything and everything you have always wanted to know. What women really want, the secrets to sending women crazy with lust, how to become completely irresistible – all essential wisdom that’s right there on tap.
5. Make it a Two-Way Experience
This is technically optional, but can nonetheless make for a much more enjoyable experience. Some tune into cam girl sites with nothing but their own instant gratification in mind. Elsewhere, others are hooking up with gorgeous models from around the world for online dates. With the latter, you set up your own webcam, and you play an equally important part in the whole thing. One option is like watching porn, while the other is more like a real-world two-way sexual experience. Prizes for guessing which of the two is almost always more gratifying.
6. Ask for Instructions
You really don’t have to worry about awkward silences, or finding yourself in a position where you don’t know what to do. As often as you like (throughout the entire exchange if preferred), you can simply ask your online date to instruct your next moves. There’s nothing wrong with being a little submissive – it can actually be quite enjoyable. If you want to learn the ropes, feel free to request the guidance and advice of those who know exactly what they are doing.
7. Relax and Enjoy the Experience
Last up, if you find yourself hounded by the kinds of nerves you would usually associate with a big job interview, you’re missing the point entirely. True, that first virtual sex experience can be a little on the daunting side. Even so, the whole thing is supposed to be enjoyable, entertaining, and memorable for all the right reasons. Try to bear in mind that irrespective of how wrong things go (which they may on occasion), everything you do is completely discreet, private, and consequence-free. You’re unlikely to make a fool of yourself as you think you might, but even if you do, nobody will ever find out about it anyway!